the man your parents want for you

(ripped this off from cowboycaleb.liquidblade.com:)

Must be Chinese.
Must be older than you.
Must not be 6 years older, because Monkey clash with Tiger.
Must be educated at least until university.
Must have stable job.
Must have car.
Must be loyal.
Must not be kiam siap, otherwise susah whole life.
Must not be lazy, otherwise you have to work your entire life to feed your husband.
Must not like to talk to other women except you only.
Must not be a smoker.
Must not drink too much.
Preferably hokkien. Preferably if pure hokkien.
Preferably earning more than you.
Preferably at least 3 years older than you.
Preferably from a well-to-do family.
Preferably willing to pay everything for you and has the your money is your money, my money is also your money kind of attitude.


haha... ive gone down the list. the attributes left in black have been achieved, the ones in blue will have to wait til 5 years later to see how. and the ones in red are flashing DANGER DANGER! which means they are in danger of not being fulfilled la. hahaha! as u can see the red ones are to do with the "allocation of wealth" in my household of the future. i love my man don't get me wrong but i think in his world, his money is his, and my money is mine. wah jialat!!

two questions:
1. zhongyi, are u pure hokkien? i have no idea why but the list says its preferable. even if you're not its ok la, im only half hokkien anyways ;)
2. does rat clash with tiger???